the hindrance of our thinking:

the hindrance of our thinking:

For a long long time, I thought my thinking ability was my salvation. I couldn’t play sports, I wasn’t insanely funny or outgoing, I wasn’t good-looking enough to get the free pass….  so I relied upon my thinking to help…

the side benefits of humiliation…

the side benefits of humiliation…

My dearest friend was dying of cancer a while back.    I could never write how much we gave each other.. it was a unique connection I’ve never replaced. When he started chemo, I shaved my head to stand in…