In large measure, I think this is why a life works.
The desire, willingness and ease of going anywhere, not being attached to outcomes, gently allowing life to unfold and reveal itself.
For me, only in the constrains of expectation and judgment can things be perceived as good, bad, right, wrong, up, down.
Surrendering to the mystery is my only salvation.
Other essays on surrendering, expectation and judgement:
The benefits of non-judgement, even when it sucks
Please help me set aside everything I know..
Interesting stuff from around the world:
http://www.adeliberatelife.com/live_deliberately/practicing-non-judgment/
https://www.deepakchopra.com/blog/view/1413/nonjudgment